*looking at gross porn* haha this is….research.. .i…. *sweats* yeah thats thats good *swallows abundance of saliva* oh boy….this is great… *wipes sweat* inspiration *tugs at shirt* my aesthetic
sweet fuckin christ luke
truly an inspiration
I FUCKING LOVE THIS.
I kind of told my sixth grade teacher this in front of the class when she said “Ladies don’t do that.”
is this a common american occurrence?
so so so glad the other youtubers aren’t just letting this go
Dutch Horror Story: trying to find your bike in a 500+ bicycle parking station
Dutch Horror Story, the Sequel: you’ve found your bike but it’s crammed in between like 10 other bikes
is this actually a thing?? like I’m in the neighbour country and no one’s ever told me about this, I’m slightly worried about you guys over there
Apparently now that I’m not in school anymore I’m all about giant long-form comics.
Identity is a really important topic to me, and the trope of ‘finding yourself’ is almost as problematic and insulting to me as the trope of ‘coming out’.
I want to destroy the idea that some identities are less valid than others, the condescension that comes with ‘they’re just figuring themselves out’, and the insulting dismissal of identity exploration and performance in youth as being somehow not ‘real’, or as ‘attention seeking’. Fuck all of that.
And beyond the fact that ’inconsistent’ identities are really challenging socially, they ALSO carry these real, actual life and liberty risks; we’re expected to use the same name, orientations, values, languages, and identities across all aspects of our lives, we are expected to have normative identities that can be quantified and qualified and trust me, TRUST ME when a person is perceived as having inconsistent or unusual identities they are being flagged in all sorts of systems for extra scrutiny and action. I know this from experience.
So, yeah, this ‘one true identity’, this ‘finding yourself’, this ‘who is the real you’ stuff is bullshit. We are so, so much more interesting than that, and we deserve better.
This is very important to me as someone whose identity has changed a lot over the years - and I don’t just mean gender or sexuality, I mean everything. I am a totally different person than I used to be, and the world can’t really handle that. I’m not interested in my “profession” the way I used to be, and want to do something else. My hobbies has changed, dress sense, opinions on things like piercings, smoking, alcohol. Everything changes. Get over it.
This is amazing.
"There’s no ‘end’, there’s just the understanding of what and who you are or aren’t from moment to moment."
The sexual tension between Ted and Archie at the nintendogs competitions